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order to truly let go of a person or a relationship that ended abruptly
and unexpectedly in life, we have to realize at some point that
feelings change, and memories don't. Over time, usually the separation
of two people causes feelings to change between these two, though the
two may share very pleasant memories for years, memories by themselves
simply aren't enough to keep two souls bound together. In order to keep
the flame of a relationship lit, a couple has to be willing to keep
lighting the candle. A pair has to be willing to work hard at making each other happy, and willing to put effort into communicating effectively in their relationship. One thing that is promised at a relationship's end is that there will always be memories for both parties to take with them while parting ways. Through all of the pain and struggle just try hard to remember that feelings sometimes change, but the memories you have are yours for the rest of your lifetime. |
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
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Trying to stop loving someone is almost the only thing that can't be done. Doing so would require that the piece of your heart given away by a person stricken with love for another, to be returned to its previous owner, it would require that memories both good and bad be erased from a person's brain, and for feelings that were supposed to be for a lifetime to disappear with no remnants anywhere.
People do get past their pasts, and in fact we have to in order to get to the future in the best fashion, but somehow an old flame of love is something that can diminish greatly in a person's heart, but can never fully disappear. Be careful with whom you love and how you love because you never stop loving someone, you either never did, or you always will.
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